Daily Blabber

Mesothelioma

It’s been a long time since I posted an entry here. I’ve been really wrapped up or consumed with my call center life so yeah. Let’s talk about mesothelioma, shall we? Without further ado then:

This must be the first time you’ve encountered the word mesothelioma, so if you dont have any idea what it is, I’m gonna tell you. It is actually a form of cancer usually caused by exposure to asbestos. Individuals who developed this kind of disease have worked on jobs where they inhaled asbestos particles or have been exposed to asbestos dust and particles in other ways.

If you’re one of these individuals who developed this kind of disease because  the asbestos manufacturers or your employers neglect the implementation of safety measures, you can actually file a lawsuit against them.

Mesothelioma laws can be very complex and you may want to find a mesothelioma law firm with mesothelioma experienced attorney who has a track record of success in mesothelioma lawsuits on your side through the entire claim process. Why is this important? Winning is important isn’t it? I mean, why would you file a lawsuit if you dont want to win.

Why just sit there and suffer from cancer when you can make those who made you suffer pay? Makes sense?

How to Find Your Soulmate

Many people feel that there’s one person out there who can enrich your life in a way that no one else can. If this is true, how can you increase your chances of finding this person? And when you meet him or her, how will you know it’s your soulmate?

Steps:

Be the person you would love to love. Instead of waiting for your soulmate to appear, make yourself the person you would like to find. Work on becoming the unique individual you’re looking for. Just as you would want your soulmate to be comfortable in their own skin, work on just being yourself. You’ll stand a better chance of getting noticed if you are comfortable, confident, and happy to be you. Expressing your individuality is the closest you can come to advertising your soulmate potential. Not only will you stand out, but you’ll also be doing things that are more likely to bring you closer to your soulmate, who probably has similar interests and goals.

Remember that your soulmate might not be what you expect. If there’s only one person in the world who can be your soulmate, what are the chances that they’ll live in your town, look like the people you grew up with, or even speak the same language? Your soulmate does not have to live in the same country or even the same hemisphere as you. Be willing to span the globe for your true love. Also, if you’re expecting your soulmate to be love at first sight, you might never find what you’re looking for. So keep an open mind. Part of the romance of having a soulmate is being pleasantly surprised.

Be patient. Fate doesn’t work on a schedule. Your soulmate might cross your path when you’re 8 or 80 years old. Don’t be surprised either if there is a considerable age difference between the two of you. Yes, you might look forward to spending the majority of your life with your soulmate - perhaps buying a house, getting married, starting a family - but things do not always go as you plan. Your soulmate will color your world no matter how old you are, so don’t rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the soulmate box, which will cause pain for everyone involved.

Accept people for who they are, not who you want them to be. When you’ve got all these fantasies flying around in your head about how wonderful and special your soulmate will be, it can be easy to look for those specific characteristics and features in anyone you get involved with. Unfortunately, unrealistic expectations can ruin a relationship, and might even chase your soulmate away. Whoever it is that you think might be your soulmate, appreciate their individuality and trust that if this person is your soulmate, they’ll never need to change who they are for you, just like you’ll never need to change who you are for them. That doesn’t mean that you can’t encourage them to try something new or help them to grow as people, just don’t force things on them that they are not comfortable with.

Weather the storms. Contrary to what popular media would have you believe, meeting your soulmate doesn’t guarantee “happily ever after.” Things won’t get easier when you find that special someone and in fact, they might get even harder. Ultimately, a soulmate is someone you can grow with, and the only way to grow together is to face challenges together. So if you put your heart and soul into a relationship, stick with it through the ups and downs, even when you question whether it’s meant to be, and you might look back decades later and realize that you were with your soulmate all along. True love with your soulmate does not grow on its own: it must be cultivated and continually nurtured. So be lovable, and be willing to love like there is no tomorrow.

Tips:

You need to find yourself before you find your soulmate. Once you’re happy with yourself, a soulmate will make you even happier, but no one can fill a void created by not knowing who you are. Only you can do that.

Don’t obsess over finding your soulmate. Coming off as needy and desperate for love is not attractive to a soulmate - nor anyone else, for that matter! Just be yourself, keep an open mind, and wait.

Warnings!

If you’re with someone who is manipulative or abusive in any way, rest assured that you are not with your soulmate. Even if you have been married for years, break it off as quickly as possible, or else you might never meet your soulmate because you’re too busy dealing with an unhealthy relationship.

This “one person in the whole world who is the one and only soulmate for you” idea might just be a load of hooey. Don’t waste your life looking for the perfect person, find ways to enjoy who you’re with (keeping in mind the previous warning).

50 thoughts to ponder

Found this on wattpad.

50 Thoughts to Ponder

1. Life isnt fair, but its still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Dont take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You dont have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. Its more healing than crying alone.

8. Its OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9 Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it wont screw up the present.

12. Its OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Dont compare your life with others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14 If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldnt be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But dont worry; God never blinks.

16.
Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. Its never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, dont take “no” for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Dont save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Dont wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?”

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30.
Time heals almost everything. Give
time
time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job wont take care of you when you are sick. Your family will.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Whatever doesnt kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative! dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone elses, wed grab ours back.

41. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

42. Get rid of anything that isnt useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of
time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you dont ask, you dont get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isnt tied with a bow, but its still a gift.